Long story short. I have been with my partner for 8 yrs now haven't really been happy for the last 6 of them. It has been the same fights forever he promises to change does for like 2 weeks a month then things go back to normal. Hes never around and when he is he does very little to help around the house or children. We are not intimate or affectionate. I have asked multiple times to seperate and then he makes the promises again and I stay. I do love him just not in love anymore do I wait and hope the future will get better or move on?