This isn't something I've 'spotted', and I'm not even sure if this post is allowed, but I need help. I feel comfortable with being able to post on this website anonymously, so I'm really hoping this will get posted..

I won't bore you with the nasty details, and please spare me any judgement, but long story short I'm looking for a good self defence class that could help me protect myself against a man. Now, before you begin to try and inform me about the (very obvious) option of going to police, please understand that there's only so much police can do. Once/ If it's taken to the court system, it's an entirely different ball game and sadly I've (much like many other victims of domestic violence) struck out. So, I've come to the realization that the only one that can protect me is ME.

Which brings me here.. hoping that perhaps someone reading this can recommend a good class/ trainer.