I was at the party store in essex with my daughter and 2 grandsons when a nice man asked the boys if they were being good to which they responded yes of coarse. He then handed them each a box of smarties and said that was for being good. Thank you again my grandsons talked about how nice it was you did that you made a huge impact on them. You not only taught them but also myself that it really means alot to a child when another person recognizes their good behavior something i will start doing also!! My grandsons are 5 and 7 years old and really can't stop talking about you. So thank you so much....you have been spotted!!